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Friday, December 30, 2011

There's always room for more and MORE!

I am a confused Christmas FREAK! I L-O-V-E everything about it.  The sights, sounds and smells.  The chaos, friends, the family and the SURPRISE!  The Thursday night before Christmas we eagerly awaiting the Polk's to get here.  They were coming with little Oliver! Washing sheets, prepping rooms, making lists and checking them twice!  All the kids were tucked in bed by the time the Polk's made it here (My 5 plus we got the extra surprise of HANNAH! Just the start of this seasons surprises)  After late night cuddles with Oliver we were off to bed for a fun filled day tomorrow!

We spent the morning in our jammies catching up, cuddling and cooing over Oliver.
When my older brother Neal is here there never a second where he isn't trying to make me cry or dare me to do something for $20!  This time was no different.  He dared me to drink goats milk but not just any goats milk! It was this thick yogurt goats milk that smelt rancid! With all the boys watching I was going to show them One taste on my tongue and I am OUT!  NO freaking way I will swallow any of that!..Dean pipes up with I'll do it for $20!  Fine I pass the torch to you dear child!  GROSS he did it!  I was gagging watching him!  EWW! Boys are G R O S S

 Lunch time and we all got ready to celebrate a early Christmas with Nana and Papa.  The wrapping paper flying begins!  The "Thank you, you didn't have to do that  No seriously you REALLY shouldn't have" gifts were opened we decide a trip to the mall to see Santa then some dinner was a great idea!  Yes I said the Friday before Christmas going to the mall with 6 Adults and 6 kids to see Santa was a GREAT idea for family bonding.  We loaded into three cars and made our way to the mall.  The second we pulled into the mall I thought "who's stupid idea was this anyways?!?"  oh that's right MINE..GEZZ! who lets me be in charge!... My husband pulled to the front of the mall to drop me off so I could go stand in line to see Santa and with train of cars following him he went to find the one and only parking spot in the mall.  I rushed through the food court avoiding all the sample and made my way to the center of the mall to see SANTA!  Thank God the line isn't THAT long.  I ask the last guy in line "Is this the end of the line?" he said but your going to have to ask them if you can get in line"  What is this some kind of mother may I game?!? NOT FUNNY !... The young worker said "Santa is closed he is going on break"  Me: "WHAT? Santa is going on break?! I thought he worked 24 hrs a day the days before Christmas!" To which the young guy who couldn't even crack a smile said " Yes Break he is closed from 5pm-6pm"  PERFECT! its only 4:05! Where do I stand in line? Now the older grumpy elf (I am assuming she isn't thrilled that she was born into a life of elfhood by the I hate my job look on her face) says.  Ma'am there is no way Santa can see all these people already here in a hour so we have to cap the line... (I am sure Santa knows a thing about capping! he is probably going to get drunk just so he can deal with his attitude filled elves!) I tried begging to get in that line, making funny Santa jokes, getting irritated nope those elves were budging.... NO SANTA FOR YOU!   I quickly called everyone from the group NO ONES ANSWERING!  Finally I get a hold of my mom and practically scream DON'T GET ANYONE OUT OF THE CAR!  SANTA IS LEAVING! I REPEAT DON'T GET THE KIDS OUT OF THE CAR!  Oh ok sweetie! I will tell them.... Just then my husband called to say we are heading towards the Food court! UGH! NO DON'T SANTA IS UNION AND NEEDS A BREAK!  To late!  I quickly ask around DOES ANYONE KNOW WHERE THERE IS ANOTHER SANTA?  I NEED ANOTHER SANTA LOCATION STAT!  To which one sweet lady in line says.. Well Santa was at the Thursday night main street event last night...He was a good Santa too! REALLY! LADY! How the heck is that going to help me?  Are you trying to win mother of the year for taking your kids to see all the Santa's in the county?!  GREAT YOU WIN!  NOW where can I see Santa NOW TODAY!?  I need Santa right this minute my boys are getting closer...I need a detour! By now there was a crowd of ticked off parents because the sign says Santa goes to feed his reindeer's from 5-6pm NOT 4-6pm... Cant we form another line for 6pm?! NOPE not till 5:30.  I turned to the grumpy old elf and said Do you know if the old mall has a Santa this year? How about the Outlets?  To which she finally cracked a smile to say.. No.. The closest one is Exeter and I bet he is closed already..NICE thanks!  I pushed my way through sad kids and mad parents to go get my boys.  We meet up just so I could break the news,  Santa has a drinking problem and... KIDDING!  I came up with some story about how Santa has to check his reindeer blah blah! we are leaving the mall and going to dinner... Santa will have to wait until tomorrow.. Broken hearted we headed back to the car.. Across town we drove to have dinner as a family.  The rest of the night was a blur of food, laughs, and noise.  We said our good-byes to Nana and Papa and made our way home.. Baths and bed time for everyone didn't come soon enough.   After all were asleep Suzanne and I decorated the Kitchen table for a surprise Christmas eve morning good-bye  breakfast from the elf on the shelf... That elf sure out did himself with the fun table setting :)  Christmas day 1 DOWN~!  Just two more to go!

Christmas eve morning I tried to sneak out of the house before everyone woke up to get 7 miles in.  Getting out of the house before EVERYONE was up SUCCESS! Getting 7 miles in UNSUCCESSFUL!  By mile 2 I could feel the cold I had for over 2 weeks really kicking in.   I was fatigued to say the least, I decided I would push through.. We stopped along the way at Lowes for a potty and water break...That was scary as I stood backing looking at myself  in the mirror I realized the cold was getting the best of me.. I wasn't going to give up..at least not without a fight.  We started back out on the road, my chest was getting tight, i was sweating like a pig (maybe a fever nikki?!), and I just felt weak.  Since I started running I havent had a "ugly" run.. I have had plenty of WOW that was hard runs  but none as ugly as this.   4 miles in I decide this was stupid.  I was sick and should be at home in bed.  I broke from the group to make the 1.5 miles back to my car.  I thought about walking back but I was already beating myself up for not finishing the whole 7 miles.  I stumbled back to the parking lot with a total of  5.53 miles in under a hour..Not bad for being sick... I headed home to shower and start prepping Breakfast by now I am sure the boys found the surprise.

 Before I could even make it to the door the boys were screaming MOMMY LOOK WHAT THE ELF DID!!  LOOK!! I was excited that they were so excited! I showered quickly and started in on the reindeer pancakes.  In the midst of all the cooking and screaming my sister in law Kris called... Nikki can we Skype? ummm SURE why not! then she could see the craziness going on and maybe the boys could calm down talking to her... Neal and I tried to figure out how to skype from any of our devices and we were having no luck... I heard out in the living room.. GRANNY AND PAPA are here... I didn't pay any attention since just yesterday Luca yelled JESUS is in our backyard Beau LOOK it's JESUS! I continued on with trying to figure out skype... Soon I looked around and the kids and Hubby were gone.. The bacon burning in the pan, I looked around the corner of the kitchen to the front door to yell at Skip for burning the bacon when I saw everyone crowed around the door and My in laws standing there....WOAH! Granny and Papa were really here... Why is this a WOAH.. We'll you see Granny and Papa live in MINNESOTA! Not a drive down the coast line but a we flew across the US trip.   What a special treat.  SURPISED AGAIN! In the almost 13 years we have been together we have never had them here for Christmas!  Hugs, tears, and lots of  love we made our way back to the kitchen for a even better SURPRISE breakfast.. MAN that Elf  is GOOD!  way to make a exit buddy! 



 We ate and got ready to head to see Santa! We got to the mall just in time to see Santa leave on break again! This time it was ok, they allowed us to line up.  We broke off  into groups.  I stayed in line with Oliver, Dad took the toddlers to the play area, and the older boys broke off  with granny/auntie/ and uncle.  It got close to Santa coming back and everyone made their way back to the line, I started prepping my camera so I could take my own pictures with my own camera for $5!  But it sure beat the starting price of $22 if Santa's helper took your picture. (Thats how Santa gets gifts for all the kids by over charging their parents for priceless memories and a picture with him)  We were next in line and I informed the grumpy elf we were back and were going to take several poses with my camera.. 1) picture of just the baby  2) of all the kids and Oliver 3) just my boys 4) of everyone... and her reply was Ok you ca try but Santa doesn't like it when people use THOSE kinds of cameras (Nikon D40) Well Santa can just get over it! because I don't like it when he closes the line an hour before his break time!..  Santa was actually really nice about the many pose changes.. I think its mostly because we formed a plan before we got to him and shocked and awe him with  all the ids adults and requested...We took all our pictures and started to walk away and he said WAIT! you didn't tell me what you wanted for Christmas! Oh yeah! that's right Santa! Thank you! ..... Santa didn't seem to mind all the chaos one bit... THANKS MALL SANTA!

 All 11 of us got ready to head to Christmas eve candle light service.  We made it ON TIME!  The boys had helped me make some goodies bags to hand out to the kids since it was a family service, the boys started in right away with handing out their baggies to each kid.  After service started Pastor Joel made sure everyone had candles...YES even the kids(insert mini panic attack) THANK goodness no fire!...YET! As he started to share how one light can spread he called his adorable boys up to light their candles then share their flames. THEN......he called ALL the kids up front to light their candles and walk around with them and light the adults candles (insert MAJOR panic attack) I was in the back of the church with the toddlers I couldn't go up there with them.   I watch as they made their ways to the front.  I was praying that Ethan didn't try to caught something or someone on fire! I chased Wesley to the front and as I grabbed him I looked up to see three of the sweetest boys carefully lighting others candles.  Proud mommy moment! I stood there holding a wiggling 2 year old watching as one by one my boys helped spread their lights for Christ.  I couldn't help but get watery eyed seeing how the room lite up by the smallest of lights.  After all lights were lite, parents breathed a sigh of relief, and kids were sited, I looked down our row of 11 and felt very blessed. I have 5 healthy boys, an amazing husband, the special gift of sharing Christmas with my in laws, a precious new nephew, and a wonderful brother and sister in law who make the 5 hour drive to our house every year (a couple times a year).  Thank you Jesus for blessing me more than I deserve. You are our reason for the season.

 It is our tradition to do a MASSIVE wrapping on Christmas eve.   Suzanne and I spend hours wrapping while the guys assemble gifts.  Its actually LOTS of fun!  Tons of laughs.  I like it this way... There is nothing exciting about looking at wrapped gifts for weeks under a tree or stacked in a office some where.. So we MASSIVE wrap!! This Christmas eve, we wrapped, assembled and I finished crafting my gifts.  I wrote about how Christmas was going to change at our house this year and it went REALLY!!!!! well :) I will post my crafts next.  I remember that Skip's gift was at a friends house. I didnt want him to know so I sent him to on Christmas eve for trash bags to Walgreens I raced to my friends house to go get his Saw.  I threw it in Neal's car and raced back home Neal came running out to the car and said LEAVE it in there he is coming! no way he would see it.. JUST help me! He was laughing so hard I said forget it I'll do it myself.  I wiggled it out of the driver seat door just as I came to the back of the car Skip came around the cornor .... Neal still laughing and I know sprinting into the house carrying a huge saw, I threw the door open and rushed back to Dean's room... I threw that door open flug the saw box on the bed and started to run out.  Poor Suzanne sitting there trying to nurse was like What the heck just happened?  Neal now in the house crying from laughing so hard at me running with a huge box, says act natural! OH OK!   Never a dull moment here!

Christmas morning couldn't come quick enough... I am like one of the kids pacing around waiting for everyone to get here and get up! Finally the moment arrives and we line the boys up by age (like we do every year) and they RUN down the hallway to see how the living room transformed into a Christmas wonderland! Screams and Hollers fill the room!  I try to take it all in because I know one day they will grow up and the cheers of what Santa left will be over.  The day was filled with gifts, food , visit, memories and crying! YES crying! Dean snuck and got me and dad something at the mall while walking around with Uncle Neal and Aunt Suz.  He handed me this wrapped box and I already started to cry.  I opened it up and it was a Make a Wish foundation snow globe... Engraved inside it said Expect Miracles Every Day... It started playing A Wish Your Heart Makes...... I lost it! Everything stood still and I cried like a baby.  There stood my tween boy with tears in his eyes telling me how much he loved me and how he used his goats milk money and savings to buy Dad and I a gift... Dad got a pen from Things to Remember as well. Guess my brother wins again!  He helped make me cry.  Thank you Neal and Suzanne for always helping make Christmas special :) This one extra special, sharing Oliver's first Christmas with us and being wonderful Aunt and Uncle to our boys.

I would definitely say this was THE best Christmas EVER!  We made room for more at the table, more memories and more laughs! We cut back our spending on Christmas gifts this year but didn't cut back any of the memories made! 

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